Why confessions of a single mum?  I thought it was about time I explained why confession of a single mum came about and for you to get to know me.

I’m Kairen and a single mum to my daughter who is 15 and my son who is 13. I have been a single mum for over 10 years and wouldn’t have it any other way. In my time I have been a seamstress for more years than I can remember making wedding dresses from other people’s imaginations. I moved from sewing to an office when I divorced and only left the office environment this year. Being made redundant was the best thing that ever happened to me. Yeah its tight and not all plain sailing but it made me discover what I really wanted to do ( not bad for nearly 40 yrs old). Now I am studying for a foundation degree to be a certified nerd (make websites and understand all the jargon) as for why the website, well it all started from a game of poker.

Now before you mark me down as a gambling unfit mother, let me assure you this really isn’t the case. A couple of male friends were having the argument that a woman is not a good a poker player as the male breed. To prove their point they taught me the game and then invited me to the boy’s poker nights. If you are now imagining me in a smoky dim lit room with shots of liquor being slugged back and a huge pile of money in the middle of the table complete with house keys and children’s savings books, let me paint the real picture. Imagine a normal everyday lounge with 3 blokes and 1 woman sitting around a table with mugs of coffee or tea. There was no pile of money but a small pot of less than a £10 as the buy in was minuscule. That’s it I’m afraid, no sordid details to report. The only thing to report was that I wasn’t invited to many nights. Apparently I only won on the first week as I had lady luck, then second week it was a fluke and the third week was more lady luck. By the fourth week I knew my poker nights with them were to come to an end and I was never asked back.

Now what’s this got to do with confessions? Well I left the fourth game so irate that I was an outcast for just being good at something I looked up women’s poker in my area, nothing to be had. So I got the idea to make a website for women who wanted to learn to play poker. Pink Poker was around for over two years and I can report it did very well. ( I also learnt that sometimes yo have to let go of things ans when PinkPoker had run its course I created Scratch Cards Online)There is a limit to how much poker even I can stomach but I had discovered I loved making the website so I made a website about something I was passionate about. The short of it all confessions came about.

I am passionate about it being ok to be a single mum, that we all don’t have to have or will have the considered normal set up. I get so irate when it is presumed I am waiting for Mr. Right or I can’t possibly be happy being a single mum. I know I am not the first to feel this way nor will I be the last but least now I have somewhere to rant and rave on the subject and hopefully make a difference.


Something I have been asked a lot since changing to this new theme is where I got the theme from. So a big thumbs up and plug for the designer. Nick is the designer and developer over at Elegant Themes where this template came from. Pop along and have a look as he has made many more gorgeous wordpress themes.

 

 

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8 Responses to About Me

  • hey man, nice blog…really like it and added it to bookmarks. keep up with good work

  • Thank you for reminding me that it is okay to be a single mum. Personally I am in the first few days of it, due to a separation and it is nice to hear another side to the story. Waving goodbye to the nuclear family concept has been terrifying, but in my heart I know there is something else there for me too. I was seeking some new thinking around this and came up with your website. Nice.
    Then I found this on wikipedia….

    Today nuclear families with the original biological parents constitute roughly 24.1% of American households, compared to 40.3% in 1970.[8] Roughly 75% (or percent) of all children in the United States will spend at least some time in a single-parent household.[citation needed]

    According to some sociologists, “[The nuclear family] no longer seems adequate to cover the wide diversity of household arrangements we see today.” (Edwards 1991; Stacey 1996). A new term has been introduced, postmodern family, which is meant to describe the great variability in family forms, including single-parent families and child-free couples.”[8]

    ….Interesting huh
    Keep up with the website. I like the simplicity of it.
    Tonita

  • New to blogging myself and found your site by accident…..LOVED IT! :)

    I too have children the same ages as yours and also enjoy poker night for pitiful pots! Due to this I will definitely be popping in again to enjoy more of your pearls of wisdom and to see if our outlook is similar in any other way.

    (I hope you don’t mind but I’ve added you to my blogroll so others can find you too :) )
    Best wishes
    Rachel x

  • im a new mum finding it so hard ith no1 2 help me always gettin upset just want a dad 4 her but cant find the right guy.

  • I found your blog on google and read a few of your other posts. I just added you to my Google News Reader. Keep up the good work Look forward to reading more from you in the future.

  • Fab site, I have been on my own two years now with a 4.5 yr old and now 18month old (he left when i was 6 weeks preg) and am LOVING IT!!! The only stress i get is from my ex’s demands. Other than that, we girls have a really loving thing going and have a great life. The whole nuclear things still weighs at times, more that they dont have a live in dad, and how that will affect other relationships for them. For me i could care less, I am happy in my self.
    Great site, and hmmmmm, poker heh, always wanted to learn……

  • Love this site, well done!! x

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