I have just discovered your blog and find it a complete relief to see I am not the only one dealing with all these issues, most of my friends are still with their kids Dads so they dont always get it. I have a “dreamer dawdler” I got so sick of nagging only to feel completely invisible after many tears (from me) I decided on a colourful step by step (with times) laminated morning routine and a dry wipe marker so that dreamy boy can tick off when he has done something and then I dont have to nag and we can all have a nice morning …. it worked for a week or so but now the novelty is wearing off and we are back to Nag city !!