Confessions of a Single Mum » Being Made Redundant http://www.confessionsofasinglemum.co.uk Fri, 18 May 2012 09:15:28 +0000 en hourly 1 Going Self Employed as a Single Mum http://www.confessionsofasinglemum.co.uk/books/going-self-employed-as-a-single-mum/ http://www.confessionsofasinglemum.co.uk/books/going-self-employed-as-a-single-mum/#comments Tue, 10 May 2011 09:40:40 +0000 Confessions of a single mum http://www.confessionsofasinglemum.co.uk/?p=2460 It used to be the argument should a mum go back to work. Now it seems the argument is how can a mum can return to work. In the current work and economic climate it’s not that easy. Add into the mix being a single parent and it can be a nightmare so could going self employed be the answer for a single mum?

I worked full time for many years and just the process of getting out the house in the morning was nearly a full day’s work. Having two children they were at one point at different schools, at different parts of the town with different starting times with my office is a completely different part of town. Then there was the after school logistics to work around to. If all that wasn’t enough to think about there were school holidays and sudden sick days too. Once home in the evening there was less than 2 hours to get tea (if I had managed a food shop at some point) help with homework and spend time with the children before they went to bed. Needless to say I was permanently chasing my own tail and worn out.

Two years ago I decided to get some part of my life back and ventured into going self employed. The change in my and the children’s lives is huge. My commute to work is the arduous task of walking down the stairs. I finish my day when the children come home from school. I have enough energy left that if work needs doing I can when they have gone to bed. The children look forward to school holidays instead of dreading the farming out to various clubs.

I’m not saying it’s the easy option. Going self employed as a single mum is a challenge. Money is tighter but when I asked the children what they thought if I went self employed and the fact there would be less money, they were both more than enthusiastic. They knew it would make me a happier mum which made them happier.

You may now be slightly intrigued if you could be self employed. It doesn’t suit every one; you have to be self motivated and disciplined. If you’re a bit flaky on either of these then you may not be able to keep yourself away from the daytime TV when you should be working. It’s not an easy opt out solution.

If your still interested the next question is probably what self employed job could you do. Antonia Chitty has some excellent advice in her book Family Friendly Working, have a think about your skills. Write them down if possible.

  • Can you cook, sew or take a good photo?
  • Can you type, do shorthand or have other secretarial skills?
  • Do you love to iron or getting to grips with a yucky oven?
  • Do you have green fingers?

The list can be huge. Maybe you have hobby which could be turned into a business.

 

If you’re serious about making the jump I really recommend Antonia Chittys books. She talks you through different ways of setting it up, financing your idea and lots more. Two books I can really recommend are:

Family Friendly working - brilliant book for single mums thinking of going self empolyed Family Friendly Working – this has loads of ideas but also all the practical things you need to know beforehand. It talks you through the different ways to go into business, how to set it up and how to grow your business.
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Family Friendly Business can give lots of ideas for single mums thinking of going self employed. Start A Family Friendly Business: 129 Brilliant Business Ideas for Mums – if you’re stuck on what to do.
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Also have a read through a couple of websites that really helped me were:

Advice Guide

Small business

Business Link

Talk to the Lone Parent Advisor at your local job centre. They will talk through the financial scenarios as well as other help they can give like small courses on going self employed ( for managing your books etc). Once I knew some figures of what I could be earning I also checked the different scenarios out on the Benefit Checker at Turn2Us.

My biggest advice is to way everything up, make sure you have thought the cost side out really thoroughly. Talk with your children if they are old enough to understand,let them think on the idea and then see how they feel. Going self employed was the best thing I ever did as well as the most challenging.

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]]> http://www.confessionsofasinglemum.co.uk/books/going-self-employed-as-a-single-mum/feed/ 4 The Best Laid Plans of a Single Mum http://www.confessionsofasinglemum.co.uk/being-made-redundant/the-best-laid-plans-of-a-single-mum/ http://www.confessionsofasinglemum.co.uk/being-made-redundant/the-best-laid-plans-of-a-single-mum/#comments Mon, 01 Feb 2010 11:13:28 +0000 Confessions of a single mum http://www.confessionsofasinglemum.co.uk/?p=838 I have a plan. I want to go self employed. Now it seems a very nice plan in my head but when I sit down and look at the figures it’s not such a good plan. I am a worse case scenario sort of person. I like to know the worse case and be prepared then I know anything else is a piece of cake. So with trusty excel sheet groaning at the amount of calculations and different scenarios, I have studied the plausible situations I am faced. I have taken into account the child and working tax credits, any housing benefit etc that I would be entitled to at each scenario but what gets me is that in starting up the business there is no direct help available for me- to put it simply I am too old or not old enough.

The basics of my situation – I want to become a web site designer. I have been making small websites for myself and friends for long enough to realise it’s my passion. Website design and SEO have been my hobby for many years, so with lots of research and thinking I have decided to take it to the next level. I have always followed the strict regime outlined by the benefit system but in doing so my paying customer number is down there on the nonexistent level.

At nearly 40 I am too old for the New Business schemes that are out there.[stextbox id="alert"](Tip- figure out what you want to do with your life way before your 30th birthday)[/stextbox] There are schemes available for the over 50′s who want to be self employed.

Also when I was made redundant I was put on income support automatically as I have two children. Now if I had been put on Job Seekers allowance then the step into self employment would be rewarded with a Self Employment Credit of £50 a week for 16 weeks which is a total of £800 [stextbox id="alert"](Tip – if made redundant check if income support or Job seekers allowance is the better option- You will have to ask as the pros and cons are not voluntary explained).[/stextbox]If I estimate that in the new stages of self employment I won’t be working many hours then this too goes against you. Notch up at least 16 hours plus a week then I get a one off payment of £250 through the Job Grant scheme.

Now if I stay on income support for another 6 months and then launch into being self employed after a full year of income support then I would qualify for In Work Credit. This is £40 a week for 52 weeks, a grand total of £2080.

In the grand scheme of things if I was sure I would be working over 30 hours a week and had lots of customers lined up then yes I would be hugely better off. But in starting up the business the early days are the days that the help is needed when customer numbers are low. It’s not like flicking a light switch and hey presto working lots of hours lots of customers.

So I have no option but to start gradually and inform the relative benefit sections of my increase in hours and income. This also cancels out the entitlement of the above schemes. I think this post could be now called I am about to launch a business on nothing.

Now don’t get me wrong I know it will be a lot of hard work to start up it wouldn’t be rewarding if it was easy. I am not looking for an easy route. It’s just sad that out of all the help that is out there I don’t fit into any of the categories.

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Help that is out there for single mums going self employed.

Child Tax Credit

Working Tax Credit - eligible when working over 16 hours a week.

Housing Benefit

Income support - eligible if working under 16 hours a week.

In Work Credit - tax free payment of £40 per week for up to 52 weeks. You may get it if you are bringing up children alone, will be working more than 16 hours a week and expect to work for 5 weeks. You also have to be in receipt of Income Support or Jobseekers Allowance for 52 weeks prior to starting self employment.

Job Grant- a tax free lump sum (£250 for single parents) you need to have been claiming Employment and Support Allowance, Incapacity Benefit, Income Support,

Allowance or Severe Disablement Allowance for more than 6 months and start work for more than 16 hours a week.

Self Employment Credit – You need to have been claiming Job Seekers Allowance and move into self employment and work 16 hours a week or more. Self Employment Credit is not available if you claim Return to Work Credit or In Work Credit. It is paid at a rate of £50 per week up to 16 weeks. It is not counted as income when tax credits and Housing Benefit are calculated.

The Prince’s Trust- helps 18 – 30 unemployed start up their own business.

Prime – Helps the over 50′s set up their own business.

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Please – if there any any self employed single mums out there get in touch and share your experiences.

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]]> http://www.confessionsofasinglemum.co.uk/being-made-redundant/the-best-laid-plans-of-a-single-mum/feed/ 6 Switching to Benefits http://www.confessionsofasinglemum.co.uk/being-made-redundant/switching-to-benefits/ http://www.confessionsofasinglemum.co.uk/being-made-redundant/switching-to-benefits/#comments Sat, 27 Jun 2009 07:42:03 +0000 Confessions of a single mum http://www.confessionsofasinglemum.co.uk/?p=339 This week I had to tackle the task of switching from employment to benefits. You would think that these people would talk to each other to make things easier, but I guess that is too obvious. Instead I had to call housing benefit, jobcentre and the tax credit people. Knowing that they only work form the date you inform them I had rung all three on the day I was given my redundancy letter. I explained I would be redundant in a month’s time but taking the final week as holiday. Pretty straight forward, or so I thought. I called the job centre and explained exactly that, I was told to call back the day I actually stopped work. As too the tax credit people. Housing benefit are a bit more clued up and took note that the change was happening and actually made sure I knew who else I had to call. Gold star for housing benefit.

So I worked my last day in the office and next day armed with P45 I contacted the three amigos again. Tax credits have told me to call back at the end of the month as the holiday week is still classed as employment. Housing benefits took a copy of my p45 and have adjusted my claim ready for when it changes. They can already tell me what and when I will get paid. Another gold star for them. Job centre, well I don’t think they will be gaining any gold stars form me. I filled out my claim on line the day after working as I was advised when I called them. A lady calls next day to go over more questions. Turns out a lot of questions and even I by the end of it couldn’t remember how many children I had let alone their dates of birth. Next I was informed to attend an interview the next day at the job centre and warned that only exceptional circumstances would be accepted if I didn’t attend.

 So off I trot to the job centre, 10 minutes early as usual for me. To say they have had a face lift since I last went is a bit of understatement. They are all trendy now in primary colours, sofas and not one but two security guards. Gone are the days of walls of jobs on note cards, instead its full of fangled touch screen machines complete with a reception that looks like she is a maitre de of a restaurant. I have to see lady first who goes over my online claim and the questions from the telephone call. Of course it is wrong, the lady on the phone must have got bored and click happy. Once corrected I am asked to wait for the lone parent advisor. This is the lady I want to see, I have questions, lots of them. I have even written them down and have pen ready to fill in the answers. An hour later I leave despondent and with no answers. I was basically told to ask all those things if I still want to know in 6 months time.

As for knowing when and what I will be paid, well your guess is as good as mine. At a time where I am going to a smaller income, I am responsible enough to have an excel sheet that tells me what I have to spend and when. ( by the way Christmas this year will be moving to 4 months later as my excel sheet tells me I can afford it then) I do know what I will get once they have sorted it all out as I checked on Entitled To and that is pretty much accurate for my circumstances.

So my advice if your about to go this route.

  • Call all of them as soon as you know your circumstances are going to change.
  • Check what your are entitled to, don’t rely hearsay.
  • Explain to your landlord. Housing benefit is paid 4 weekly and most peoples rent is monthly. If he knows and is forewarned he might be more lenient.
  • Keep a note of every telephone call you have with any of them.
  • Be prepared to wait for all the benefits to be sorted out. Speed and easy transition is not in their vocabulary.

 

If any one else has some advice please chip in and comment

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