Why are some people never single?

I was talking to a friend over coffee one lunch time….ok I lie it was less glamorous. I’ll start again. The other evening I had a text conversation with a friend. Were both single parents and both had no sitters. See I am normal. Anyway the discussion was why some people couldn’t be alone. Why do some seem to jump from one person to the next with no breathing space in between? They never spend anytime as a single person. Our conclusion is that to actually spend time as a single it actually requires a lot of strengths. For starters you have to actually like your own company as there are times that your own company is all you get. To be happy with your own company you have to actually like yourself. If your own company sends you mad then how on earth can you expect someone else to be happy in your company? It’s the same with love. For someone to be able to love you, it has to start with you loving yourself.

So to be on your own you need to like yourself and be comfortable with yourself. And to be with someone you have to be able to like yourself and be comfortable with yourself.

Will be interested in what all your thoughts are on this. Let me know

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