Sometimes there are decisions that you have to make as a single mum that are the hardest thing to do. I don’t mean the new shoes type of decision, more the life changing decisions. If both your heat and head are in agreement then it’s easy. But when the heart says one thing but your head advises you a different root then it is the hardest thing ever. I have just made one of these hard decisions and now sit here bracing myself for what I know is going to be a tough journey. I know I have made the right choice though and will hold onto this fact. Being a single mum though makes it tough when you don’t have a partner to bounce your thoughts off. The cat is pretty good at listening but totally useless at giving advice.